Clarify representation and any conflicting interests with the attorney before assuming one engagement covers everyone. This guide does not prescribe a representation arrangement.
Make coverage explicit
List each intended family participant, who may instruct counsel and who receives advice. Discuss sensitive facts privately where necessary. A family member paying the bill does not by itself establish whose interests the professional represents or what advice is included.
Confirm that age and relationship questions are actually within the agreed assignment. One adviser representing an entire household is common and is not automatically a problem, but it should be a considered arrangement rather than a default. Ask directly who the adviser acts for, what happens if family members' interests diverge, and whether anything one person discloses would be shared with the others.
Interests can diverge in ways families do not anticipate: a person whose own history raises an issue, a relationship that is not what it appears on the documents, a family member who would prefer not to proceed. Establish in advance how such a situation would be handled and whether separate representation would then be required. Confirm the arrangement in writing, and make sure each adult understands who is and is not acting for them.